The Best Marriage Advice From A Divorced Man

Divorce. It happens for tough reasons and it is one of the toughest things many people will go through. And really, choosing to share your life with someone is, in most cases, done out of pure love. Leaving that person hurts, no matter the reason for doing so.

Of course, no happily married couple would like to think of going through such tough times. Losing the love of your life is a separation which will invariably take a part of you away. However, things can get so bad, that sometimes divorce is a thing you have to go through.

Gerald Rogers, a psychologist who went through such though divorce, shared some beautiful advice every married couple needs to read. “After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I could have had…” he starts.

Although the post is originally intended for men, this message should go to both partners, as these are things that both partners need to nurture in their relationship – a relationship is a mutual thing.


Your relationship started with courting, dating, doing everything to show your loved one that you are the person who they need in your life. Why get lazy once you get married? The romance should continue, and remain permanent.
Don’t forget that when you made the vows, you promised each other that you would own each other’s hearts and fiercely protect them. As Rogers says, “This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with.”